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About Strategic Marriage Coaching

I created Strategic Marriage Coaching to change the culture of Christian marriage, so that they will be held up as an example, to the world, of what marriage should be. I believe we Christians, have generally done a terrible job of teaching couples how to thrive in marriage. We talk a lot about how marriage is hard work, without giving the skills required to do that work successfully or efficiently. We talk a lot about how marriage takes commitment, without being specific about what that means in daily life. We talk a lot about how couples should avoid sex before marriage, and that premarital sex is a sin, without telling them anything about what married sexuality should be like, or that, within marriage, it is a blessing. And so, my mission here with Strategic Marriage Coaching is to provide marriages with the skills and help to create strong, productive, joy-filled marriages that glorify God. If you would like help achieving this in your marriage or future marriage, please fill out an information request for either premarital coaching or marriage coaching or you can simply email me at James@Strategic-Marriage.com.

Premarital Coaching

Pre-Marital Christian Life Coaching

Getting married or just thinking about it?  Want to know what questions you should ask, what you should know about your future spouse?  Perhaps you want to learn skills that will help your marriage, to be strategic in this major life change. Don’t become a divorce statistic, learn what you need to know BEFORE you get married to have a successful marriage.  Interested in how Strategic Marriage Coaching can help?  Click the button below.

Marriage Coaching

Christian Marriage Coaching

Marriage struggling, but not sure why?  Or perhaps you do know why, but you don’t quite think you need counseling.  Or maybe you’re just stuck in a comfortable rut, wanting to move your marriage to the next level, but not sure how to get there. Marriage is the most important relationship in your life.  Don’t wait until it is in crisis before addressing the issues.  Interested in how Strategic Marriage Coaching can help?  Click the button below.

 

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About The Coach
James Meyer has been trained as a Christian Life Coach with specializations in Marriage and Pre-Marital Coaching. He has been married to his wife, Christina, for 12 years and has 4 young children.
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